Author: PFingado

Generational Transformations: Part 2

(My mom realized some of the horrors of her childhood but she had internalized the practice of un-sharing because to expose one’s burdens, exposed their vulnerabilities. And this exposure could only lead to further...

Generational Transformations: Part 1

I am constantly amazed at how much healthier the next generation seems to be- emotionally. Perhaps  “healthier” is not the appropriate term- maybe more aware, more knowledgeable, more engaged and willing to seek professional...

Connectedness

I love the descriptive definitions of connectedness… joined, linked, belonging. This simple word, connectedness, does not seem appropriate for all the feelings conjured. To encompass our life’s objectives: to find our place in the...

Dragonflies

This is how I remember my mom. She was a vibrant person who encouraged exploration. And she loved to laugh. When the girls were little, they would play “witch” and she would chase them...

Why am I here? (nonexistentially, that is)

I am taking the leap into the world of blogging. Over the past few years, I have found writing to be incredibly therapeutic. It has allowed me the opportunity to process my emotions and...